I'd do anything for love...No,I didnt say that..Meatloaf did !! the interesting part is the clause "but i wont do that.."interesting cos it's the case with me...I dont intend bending even inches to tell a girl how much I like her and that I would die if she says anything remotely resembling a non-YES !!Crazy but true...
Why shld it be that the guy bends backwards to approach a potential,talk to her,be nice to her,get to know her,spend money on all the "incidentals",etc and then be told that the "profiles just didnt match" or "I dont see this relationship going anywhere further" !!
Gentlemanly behaviour outta window !! I'm all for women's lib-I mean seriously !!! Both of us would be as enthu abt the relationship,so why go in for a relationship where the guy pays for everything or most things??? go in for a 50-50...Both win or lose out...seems fair to me...ridiculous but true that i see the opposite happening all around me..
I have fallen in love twice..I said it to once..Was slightly smarter and didnt say it the second time(u could argue-no dum in my bum and u wuld be probably rite!!)...But both times i have observed that the girl seems to be the one in control and indications are that she would decide my lifestyle..in small but in sufficiently manipulative ways..
Doesnt like me smoking,drinking or doping..doesnt like my attitude,my acidic humour,my style of eating,whatever..more "dont likes" than "do likes" !!!
I dont expect her to change-so why me ??? "RitzKini" comes as a complete package with accessories of the right and the wrong kind(more of the latter unfortunately)..take it or leave it !!!I might be wrong but why make value-judgments ?? i dont,i keep it uncomplicated but i cant see the opposite sex doing that...They mite do so if they care for me..that i can understand but a casual acquaintance making that is not only unacceptable,it borders on the ridiculous !!!
In true Forrest Gump style lemme finish by saying:
"thats all I have to say abt that "

ritz