The Spam i get...

Here...and here... and...more...

'Owner of a lonely heart'...indeed !
:D
Proved...Spammers are a lonely bunch of people..

DMAN !

Wah...Even the 'Damn !' isnt cooperating...
Perfect !
*Yes...I could have edited the "DMAN"...but i believe in the signs...maybe it's a sign...
Good..or bad...only time will tell...*
:-/

Two of my good friends...are going through a particularly confusing time...
Two very fun souls...otherwise...
Two...that always had a smile when i saw them...
And could play 'table tennis', just like that...

*'table tennis' is the word i use to denote...
An ability to hit right back with the same amount of power to a...smash...
In this case,an insult...a sarco-remark...an intellectual-leg-pulling-sparring-session invitation...
:)
Am not great at the return...so....i tend to start the session..
:D
The word...Comes from my observation of the game...table-tennis..
Where the guy who uses force to hit a smash is at a disadvantage...always...
The opponent has to just place his bat at the pitch of the ball..at a certain angle..without trying to smash back...
and..voila..return...
at same speed....
No exagerrated movement..no unnecessary flourish...easy..effective..simple...
:)
I hit the smash...and they returned..
I am disoriented...confused...at a loss for words..advantage...lost...game...lost...
:-/
One of them..
The guy is awesome at it ! Makes me crack up when i see his consistency at good returns...
both..in the game...and in life...
:)
The other...is a girl..
So...she thinks...before she talks..and is therefore...smart...
:)*

Well...I hate it...when they are down..
Doesnt come naturally to both of them..sporting a sulking expression...
and self-pity is a quality i loathe...especially in other people...
We are lucky to be alive and perfectly healthy,yaars...
I believe,that in itself,is a gift...

So..please get over this heart-break phase...
Problem hai..toh problem hai !

We know,both you and I..that..there are 2 ways of solving it..

1. Take it head-on..and eliminate it...No problem...therefore no solution needed...
By talking it out...with the other person...not with me !
Mujhko bolke kuch faaydaa nahi hoga,my dears...
Hameshaa...fayede ki socho...
:)
Doesnt get you anywhere...telling me,ya know..
And...please dont say "Life's like that"...
Cos,if you will it...'Life...can be..exactly...like what-you-want-it-to-be !'

or...

2.Easier option...My...option...Works..for me...
Run away from the problem...
I have zero will-power...in these matters...
And so...i run away from the problem..always have..maybe...always will...
And get into something else so deeply that I dont have the time to think abt it...
Work...Play...etcetra...
and that etcetra...includes another 'love-soap-drama-episode'...
:D
Easier..too..falling in love,again...verrryyy...
:D

So..think about it..decide...and please stick to it !
No repentance..no going-backs...no sulks...
and..please...NO SELF-PITY !!!
Atleast...cos,I HATE IT !!

Inshallah...alhumdulillah...vijaayi bhava...
:)

PS: I do need a chat with 'The Guru'..
Long time since i did...
And i have had a direction everytime i have spoken to him...
"Hello,sir...Kini pesaren...how are you ? "
"Solla da KaNNa..."
And...I am back to normal...
:)

PPS: A week since it happened...today...at 6:24 PM IST..when the first one went off..
2 mins silence,please...It's the least we can do..
Thanks...