Big city learnings..1. Kisiko na nahi bolne ka..Helps having acquaintances...friends...are different..acquaintances..are different..
2. You have no friends..you have no enemies...no permanent ones,anyway...everybody is a "useful-to-know"...
3. Time is important..and costly...And when you are late,you pay..
4. Everything is in synchronized harmony...and almost an orchestra..
One mishap..even losing your grip in the overcrowded train...can end it all..
All it takes is one mistake...but then..there was never much to begin with,rite..
5. Anything that can go wrong..wont..it's called luck..and then..there's bad luck...
6. Destiny can be cheated...It should be 'Plan B'..Requires lotsa effort and focus..but,can happen...
Corollary : but..THAT might have been your destiny in the first place..
7. Situations are usually fluid...Dependencies...are not good...things change..people change...
Trust some..be casual with others..situations...and people..
8. People can be categorized into types..it's called profiling..Fitting them into a category..
You have your favourite categories...and some not-so-favourite categories...
9. The day your reason to be in that particular city is invalid,leave...else,you'll start to love the big city...and be stuck there..for life...
10. It's always a good idea to mentally list/write...and be clear about the '5Ws and 1H' of a situation...helps make life easier..esp,in the city...
Why ? Where ? Who ? What ? When ? How ?
11. Lists dont have to end at multiples of 10..they can end at an odd number..11..
Things dont need to have a perfect ending...